Hello everyone! I have changed the theme back to what I had at Diapers ABDL color wise. I love the color much more better then the dark simply because it feels more ABDL themed. For now the theme can stay, but in the future a bit down the road I still may get a custom theme that is unique to this site only.
I have also improved how buddypress shows on the site as well. BuddyPress now properly to my knowledge blends in with the WordPress theme I am using at the moment.