Welcome to ABDLCircle

1. 🌸 What This Space Is

ABDLCircle is an 18+ ABDL & regression-focused community with a mix of:

• Non-kink regression & comfort (soft, non-sexual littlespace).
• Kink-affirming ABDL / CGL dynamics (with clear consent & channeling).
• Trauma-aware venting & support for big feelings.
• Silly play, gaming, movies, and “I want to exist with people” vibes.

We aim for soft but firm: gentle language, clear boundaries, consistent application of rules, and a lot of care for people who’ve been hurt in other spaces.

2. 🔥 What This Space Is Not

To keep the fort safe, this is not:

• A minors’ space — everyone is age-verified as 18+ before entry.
• A replacement for therapy, psychiatry, or crisis services.
• A free-for-all kink dungeon — channels for adult content are clearly marked.
• A place to harass, stalk, or guilt-trip people into dynamics.

We’d rather be a smaller, safer community than a huge, unsafe one.

3. 🧷 Verification & Age Safety

Before accessing the main server, you’ll go through an 18+ verification process. In short:

• You’ll submit a photo of you holding your ID next to your face (mugshot style), or complete a short video call with staff.
• All identifying details on the ID can be covered except your ID photo and date of birth.
• Staff confirm the image is consistent, perform a reverse-image check, and then delete the image. It is not retained or stored.

Verification may feel vulnerable, but it’s a core part of why people can relax here: they know the space is genuinely 18+.

4. 🧸 Basic Channel Tour

Channels get moved and tweaked sometimes, but in general you’ll see:

• Welcome & Info – rules, announcements, and any current server-wide updates.
• Soft-space chats – daytime chatter, media sharing, cozy hangs.
• Big feelings channels – for venting and processing: #cuddle-me-crisis and #spicy-soggy-feels.
• Adult / kink channels – clearly marked, opt-in, and moderated to stay consent-focused.
• Support & tickets – where you can get private help from staff.

If you’re unsure where something belongs, you can always ask or gently ping staff, or open a ticket. Better to ask than to sit in worry.

5. 🧃 How to Be a Good Guest in the Blanket Fort

A few simple principles keep things cozy:

• Ask before DMing. Use the “ask to DM” channel instead of surprising people.
• Believe people about their pronouns, names, and identities.
• Keep heavier topics in the right channels. It’s not about silencing you — it’s about letting others choose what they see.
• Respect no. A soft “no” is still a no. No pushing, guilt-tripping, or “just joking” around clear boundaries.

Full details live on the Rules & Safety page.

6. 💭 When Things Get Hard (Because They Will Sometimes)

Even the best spaces will have misunderstandings, hurt feelings, and moments where your brain screams “it’s happening again.”

If that happens:

• You can step away from the server or a channel without explaining yourself.
• You can open a ticket and ask staff for help processing or navigating.
• You can lean on the Resources & Support page to find offline or external help.

You’re allowed to prioritize your safety and stability, even if it means leaving or muting things. That’s not betrayal; that’s care.