The ABDL Circle community rules. A warm, safe 18+ space built on consent, kindness, and good vibes. Read the rules, know the rules, have a great time.
ABDL Circle — Rules 🧸
Welcome lovelies and cuties. 🍼
ABDL Circle is a warm, safe 18+ community. These rules exist to keep things cozy, fun, and respectful for everyone. Read them, know them, and we'll all have a great time. 💜
TL;DR
Be kind. Be an adult. Get consent. Respect boundaries. Keep it cozy. 🍪
If staff says stop, or someone says no — it stops. No arguing, no "one last thing", no debating it.
Verification ✨
Every member is age-verified before gaining full access. You'll need to hold your ID next to your face in a clear photo — cover everything except your ID photo and date of birth.
Verification can also be done over video chat if you prefer. If you have a VRChat account with the official Verified 18+ badge and can prove it's yours, staff may accept that too.
Your verification photo is reviewed and deleted immediately after approval. 🧷
1. Everyone belongs here 🌍
This community welcomes every person regardless of race, culture, background, or diaper size.
❌ Racism, xenophobia, or hate of any kind = permanent ban. No warnings.
2. Queer & trans people are welcome 🌈
Whether you're cis, trans, nonbinary, ace, questioning, or just figuring yourself out — you are safe here.
❌ Anti-LGBTQ+ behavior = instant removal.
3. No harassment 🚫
No stalking, threats, unwanted sexual comments, guilt-tripping, or ignoring "no."
This includes:
- Unwanted flirting or sexual comments — especially after a no
- "Just teasing" used to push past someone's comfort
- Repeated invasive or personal questions
- Pressure, coercion, or dominance behavior without clear consent
"It's just a joke" is not an excuse. If someone is uncomfortable or says stop — it stops.
💬 If something feels off, open a ticket and let staff know. You won't be in trouble for speaking up.
4. Kink is welcome — with consent 💞
ABDL Circle is consent-safe and kink-welcoming. Whether you're here for soft comfort, littlespace, ABDL lifestyle, or CGL dynamics — you're welcome exactly as you are.
Ground rules:
- Keep adult content in adult-marked channels
- Ask before you tease, push, or engage in any dynamic
- Stop immediately when someone says no
- If staff says stop or move it — the whole topic stops, no debate
5. DMs & friend requests 📮
Not everyone wants surprise messages. Before DMing someone or sending a friend request, check their roles and ask in the appropriate channel first.
A simple "hi" out of nowhere can feel startling. Keep the energy soft. 💌
Need help or want to report something? Open a ticket — don't DM staff directly.
6. Sharing links & promos 🌐
You're welcome to share your projects, servers, streams, and content. Just keep it in the right place and don't spam.
Your post must:
- Follow site rules and be 18+ only
- Not promote hate, harassment, or discrimination
- Be clearly labeled with a short intro — don't just drop a link
- Be posted in the appropriate channel
No drive-by link drops, mass pings, or DM advertising.
7. Official collabs & partnerships 🧷
Sharing flyers is fine. Anything "official" — partnerships, sponsorships, cross-promos, affiliate links, or anything using the ABDL Circle name — needs staff approval first.
Surprise collab posts may be removed.
8. Religion, politics & spicy topics 🕊️
These topics aren't banned but can get heated fast. Keep it respectful, low-drama, and channel-appropriate.
- Don't pressure others or turn it into a debate about who's right
- If someone isn't interested, let it go
- If staff says drop it — drop it
- Neutral is okay — don't pressure people to share opinions they don't want to share
9. Accessibility ♿
Everyone deserves to feel at home here. If you need support or adjustments, open a ticket and staff will do their best to help.
Please note — accommodations are for accessibility, not to make the entire space trigger-free. You're responsible for managing your own comfort (mute channels, step away, use filters, etc.).
Safe & Sound 🌟
Once you've been around a little and staff feel you're a good fit, you may receive the Safe & Sound role — unlocking media channels, voice chats, and other cozy corners of the community.
You don't need to ask for it. Just be yourself, be kind, and it'll come. 🍪
In a crisis?
If you or someone else is in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services or visit findahelpline.com for 24/7 support resources.
Feedback & updates
Rules may be updated as the community grows. Changes will be announced clearly and feedback is always welcome. 💗
ABDL Circle is strictly 18+. Content involving or directed at minors is prohibited and results in a permanent ban without exception.